Introduction:
Why Some People Bring Strife Wherever They Go
Have you ever noticed that certain people seem to bring conflict with them wherever they go? Whether it’s in a workplace, a church, or even a family gathering, their words ignite arguments, their presence breeds division, and no matter how much patience you show, things only get worse. The Bible has a name for such individuals: scoffers.
Proverbs 22:10 gives a clear directive about dealing with them:
“Drive out the scoffer, and strife will go out, and quarreling and abuse will cease.” (ESV)
At first glance, this verse seems harsh. Shouldn’t we show grace? Shouldn’t we try to win them over? Yet, biblical wisdom teaches that some individuals thrive on destruction, and peace is only possible when they are removed. But how do we discern who the scoffer is? And when should we take action versus when should we show patience?
In this deep dive into Proverbs 22:10, we’ll uncover the divine insights that this passage offers and how it ultimately points us to Jesus Christ. By the end, you’ll not only understand the biblical principle but also learn how to apply it in real life—whether that means setting boundaries, making tough leadership decisions, or simply safeguarding your peace.
What Is a Scoffer? (And Why They’re Dangerous)
The Biblical Definition of a Scoffer
The word “scoffer” comes from the Hebrew word luts, which means “one who mocks, ridicules, or scorns wisdom.” Proverbs frequently contrasts different kinds of fools, but the scoffer is in a category of his own:
- The Simple – Lacks wisdom but is open to learning (Proverbs 1:22).
- The Fool – Rejects wisdom but can sometimes be corrected (Proverbs 12:15).
- The Scoffer – Not only rejects wisdom but mocks it, influencing others toward rebellion (Proverbs 21:24).
A scoffer is someone who enjoys tearing others down. Their words are not meant to challenge or refine but to destroy, humiliate, and create division. This is why their presence in a community is toxic.
Biblical Examples of Scoffers
1. Ishmael – The Scoffing Son
In Genesis 21:9-10, Sarah saw Ishmael “mocking” Isaac. Though the word used is debated, it is clear that his behavior was troubling enough that Sarah insisted on removing him. This removal was not about favoritism but about protecting the covenant promise God had made through Isaac.
2. Sanballat and Tobiah – Mockers of God’s Work
In Nehemiah 4, Sanballat and Tobiah mocked and ridiculed the Israelites for rebuilding Jerusalem’s walls. Their goal? To discourage and weaken God’s people. Their scoffing wasn’t just words; it was an active attempt to derail God’s plans.
3. The Pharisees – Scoffers of Christ
The religious leaders often ridiculed Jesus, questioning His authority (Luke 16:14). Their mocking was not out of curiosity but out of pride and resistance to the truth.
Peace Requires Separation
Removing the Scoffer Restores Order
Proverbs 22:10 states that when the scoffer is removed, strife, quarreling, and abuse will cease. This shows that the problem is not just conflict itself, but the instigator fueling it. Their very presence perpetuates division.
Jesus Practiced This Principle
While Jesus preached love and reconciliation, He also demonstrated removal when necessary:
- Cleansing the Temple (Matthew 21:12-13) – Jesus physically removed corrupt money changers because their actions defiled the house of God.
- Sending Away the Unrepentant (Matthew 18:15-17) – Jesus instructed His followers to remove those who refused correction.
There is a time for grace and a time for separation. Wisdom helps us discern when each is appropriate.
When to Remove a Scoffer
1. Are They Open to Correction?
Proverbs 9:7-8 warns against rebuking a scoffer because they will not listen. Jesus echoed this in Matthew 7:6, warning against giving “what is holy to dogs.” If someone repeatedly mocks, refuses correction, and spreads division, it may be time to remove them.
2. Are They Destroying Unity?
Romans 16:17 says to “watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine that you have been taught; avoid them.” God values unity and does not tolerate those who intentionally foster disunity.
3. Are They Hardening Others Against Truth?
A scoffer’s influence extends beyond themselves. Proverbs 29:8 states, “Scoffers set a city aflame, but the wise turn away wrath.” Their negativity can spread, corrupting others.
How This Passage Points to Christ
Jesus Was Mocked So That We Could Have Peace
In Matthew 27:29-31, Jesus was mocked and ridiculed before His crucifixion. Ironically, He endured scoffing so that we could have peace with God (Isaiah 53:5). His victory over sin and death means that scoffers do not have the final word.
Jesus Will Ultimately Judge the Scoffers
Psalm 1:1 contrasts the righteous with the scoffer, stating that the latter “will not stand in the judgment.” 2 Peter 3:3-7 warns that in the last days, scoffers will increase, but they will face judgment.
Two Practical Ways to Apply This Passage
1. Protect Your Inner Circle
Proverbs 13:20 warns, “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” Evaluate your relationships. Are you allowing a scoffer to influence your life? If so, consider setting boundaries.
2. Set Boundaries for Peace
Jesus Himself taught the principle of dusting off your feet (Luke 9:5) when people reject truth. Setting boundaries isn’t unloving—it’s wisdom. If someone in your life constantly breeds conflict, distance may be necessary for peace.
Wisdom Requires Action
Proverbs 22:10 reminds us that peace sometimes requires removing the source of strife. While we are called to love, we are also called to guard our hearts and our communities from destructive influences. Ultimately, true peace is found in Christ—the One who bore the mockery of the world so that we might have eternal peace with God.
Are there scoffers in your life that need to be removed? Ask God for wisdom, and trust that His ways always lead to peace.
A Prayer for Wisdom in Relationships
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for Your wisdom. Give me discernment in my relationships, courage to set healthy boundaries, and grace to walk in love. Help me to remove influences that hinder my walk with You while also extending compassion where it is needed. Teach me to follow Jesus’ example, standing firm in truth while pursuing peace.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
